What am i going to write? I was trying to calm myself and not to burst out.. Pernahkah itam pelemanak.. ngeniheng dahin "feel" the challenge of being father?
Tough, really tough for me.. being a son is not as easy as it look.. one thing for sure, i cant afford to screw up in any of my steps.. seriously.. no mistake allowed. My life is about being a very responsible son, a leader. Trying to take everything done, by my own.. sometimes i feel like a damn burden.. but to think it back.. the reason our father working so hard.. despite of his poorness.. it is worth it.. I’m willing to take this on board… I don’t mind all the pains..the scar.. Because i know, its for our future and i thanks you for that. amei. i learn from it.. how’s it taste! About "urip", about surviving in this world.. u really do.. even it is different from the way others teach their kids..
To all "APAIs men usun tana" out there,.....Happy Belated Father’s day..
Father's Day Quotes
"He opened the jar of pickles when no one else could. He was the only one in the house who wasn't afraid to go into the basement by himself. He cut himself shaving, but no one kissed it or got excited about it. It was understood when it rained, he got the car and brought it around to the door. When anyone was sick, he went out to get the prescription filled. He took lots of pictures ... but he was never in them."
"The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother."
"We never know the love of our parents for us till we have become parents."
"I have always looked at life as a voyage, mostly wonderful, sometimes frightening. In my family and friends I have discovered treasure more valuable than gold."
"The most extraordinary thing in the world is an ordinary man and an ordinary woman and their ordinary children."
"The family is the test of freedom; because the family is the only thing that the free man makes for himself and by himself."
"Fatherhood is pretending the present you love the most is soap-on-a-rope."
"You know, fathers just have a way of putting everything together. "
"Be kind to thy father, for when thou were young, who loved thee so fondly as he? He caught the first accents that fell from thy tongue, and joined in thy innocent glee."
"Role modeling is the most basic responsibility of parents. Parents are handing life's scripts to their children, scripts that in all likelihood will be acted out for the rest of the childrens' lives."
"People who exercise their embryonic freedom day after day, little by little, expand that freedom. People who do not will find that it withers until they are literally 'being lived.' They are acting out scripts written by parents, associates, and society."
"What a dreadful thing it must be to have a dull father. "
"Those who trust us educate us."
"To her the name of father was another name for love. "
"The longer I live the more convinced I become that God governs in the affairs of men. And have we now forgotten that powerful friend? Or do we imagine we no longer need His assistance. "
"Parents can tell but never teach, unless they practice what they preach."
"When Charles first saw our child Mary, he said all the proper things for a new father. He looked upon the poor little red thing and blurted, 'She's more beautiful than the Brooklyn Bridge. "
"To be a successful father...there's one absolute rule: when you have a kid, don't look at it for the first two years. "
"The best of all gifts around any Christmas tree: the presence of a happy family all wrapped up in each other."
"I am not caused by my history--my parents, my childhood and development. These are mirrors in which I may catch glimpses of my image."
